Self-gaslighting — what it means

Doing their work for them — talking yourself out of what you saw, felt, or remember, because believing it is too costly.

What it looks like

You wrote it down so you wouldn't forget. You re-read it a week later and think, "Maybe I was being dramatic. Maybe it wasn't that bad." The note says it was that bad. You're the one re-editing reality now.

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