Inner child work — what it means

A therapeutic frame — common in IFS, schema therapy, and trauma work — that addresses the wounded younger parts of you that still organize present-day reactions. Less about a literal child and more about untreated injuries that drive adult patterns.

What it looks like

When your partner's tone gets sharp, the part of you that braces is six years old and remembers a different sharp tone. Inner-child work is about getting that six-year-old to know they're not in the kitchen anymore.

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